There are few things more exciting than purchasing a new home. But some part of you might be a little sad and yet another part might be a little anxious. And if you have children, you could only imagine the emotions they may be experiencing. It is harder for children to come to terms with leaving their old house, especially if it’s the only home they’ve ever known.
Whether your moving across town or across the street, emotions are sure to be high. But leaving one town or state for another, which means a new school, new friends, and lots of other new things for your kids, tends to be much harder on children. But you can make this transition easier for your children and family.
One of the most important things you can do is to allow your children to make some of their own decisions regarding the move and the new home. If possible, allow them to pick their rooms in the new home, or maybe even let them make decisions about the living room, basement, or other areas where they will be spending time.
Of course, actually sitting down and talking to your kids about the move is incredibly important. Explain to them why the move is necessary and how it will be better for everyone. Make sure you listen to their thoughts and feelings about the move, and try to answer their questions and ease their worries as best they can.
And of course getting your kids excited about their new home is a great technique. Trying to include them in the process as much as possible helps them feel involved and central to the transition. Share news and pictures of the new home with them, and explore your new neighborhood and/or town together.
You can make your child’s next move a fun and exciting time in their life. You can also channel this opportunity to start of a great new chapter for your whole family.