Every parent wants to raise responsible children who feel loved, capable and comfortable. There is plenty of parenting advice out there about how to make sure that your kids grow into responsible adults, but at the Steadfast Academy, we think it’s much simpler than complicated parenting techniques. If you stick to reinforcing certain things, you’ll be able to give your children a safe environment in which to grow into the resilient, responsible adults you know they can be.
It’s important for you to be a good listener, for example, says Dr. Sherrie Campbell, a licensed psychologist who discussed seven important things that every child should hear in a recent article on The Huffington Post. Make sure your child knows that when they have something they want to talk about, they can come to you and you will take the time necessary to listen to them and give them advice if they need it. Even when your kids are very young, make sure they know that what they have to say matters to you. Rather than yelling and demanding to try and stop a temper tantrum, try saying, “I am listening. Tell me what’s making you upset.”
Another important aspect to keep in mind is that your child should hear certain things from you regularly, including “I love you,” “I am proud of you,” “I forgive you” and, when they get a little bit older, “This is your responsibility and you have what it takes to succeed.” In telling your child these things, that you love them and are proud of them, they will find comfort and support in their everyday lives. No child should have to wonder if their parents are proud of them.
A good parent-child relationship is also bolstered by honesty. If you are able to admit to your child that you were wrong about something and you’re sorry, they’ll begin to understand that no one is perfect – even you – and they will be able to trust you more, follow your example, and understand when you make mistakes.
Raising kids is overwhelming, and probably the hardest thing you’ll ever do, but with open communication, honesty and lots of love, your child will have a great chance at leading a successful, rewarding life where they feel fulfilled, capable and loved.
At the Steadfast Academy, we offer positive reinforcement of these aspects of childhood development while your child is in our care. As experts in early childhood education, we know the best methods to help foster development and growth of your child’s skills, self-worth and self-reliance. Learn more about our programs and our curriculum by giving us a call today at 281-991-3999.